You reflect that beings are free to choose their actions, so you have to develop equanimity in cases where other people are beyond your ability to influence in a skillful direction.

"You reflect that beings are free to choose their actions, and you’re in no position to guarantee that everyone will choose to be skillful. Not even the Buddha could do that. So to keep your focus on training your own mind, you have to develop equanimity in cases where other people are beyond your ability to influence in a skillful direction."

~ Thanissaro Bhikkhu "The Brahmavihāras"

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